RELATIONSHIPS OF EARLY AGE

Being in relationship with someone is most important part of life. most of boys/girls of early age now a days dream that their boyfriend/girlfriend should be handsome, cool, have good personality. Now a days by just just one right swipe you can find person for you, you have easy access and you don't have to put any hard effort to find someone. boys/girls giving more importance to look, personality, status etc. There are rare who look an honesty, kindness, behaviour. "A person becomes 10 times more attractive not by their look but by their act of kindness, respect, and honesty, and loyalty they show". boys/girls make relationship, start dating, go for outings, spending excess hour in unnecessary things and at some point any one of them easily broke their relationship. In the starting of the love they are happy, caring, make promises, they like to express their emotions by social media,but in the middle most relationship broke. "You don't deserve someone who come back, You deserve who don't leaves". My friends you are not a face reader, that you can know all about the person by just seeing their picture or first in first meeting

2 Major reasons, Why most early age relationship fail: 

1) Choosing wrong person: If we talk about social media then most of boys/girls spending their time on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat. These are the major platforms where finding and conversation with new boys/girls is easy. If you attract just by their pictures, Bio. etc. It means you have no control over your emotions and that is the advantage for the person who is on your white screen. You start talking, meet with each other, spend time with each other and after few months one thing happen thats "Break-Up". Because you don't know what actually their background, may be he/she already in relationship with other, may be it their habit of doing same with everyone. I'm not saying that all relationship are same. So before taking any decision, take some time and know about their personal life, family life, future plans, past life, so you get complete information about that person. One important point is choose that who support you and your carrier, support you in full-filling your dreams and goals. Real people have always higher thoughts, they always have long term thinking about their relationship, they never hurt to anyone, they always have definite plan for their relationship. "Be the person you want to have in your life". 

This is also big question that HOW to forget that person after BREAK-UP ?

Answer: You have to change your thought process because when you live with that person your mental pattern is complete different, So now you have to replace it with positivity, high power thoughts, high power internal motivation. My friends remember "All change are hard at first, messy in the middle, gorgeous at the end". You need a strong reason and emotion and find your "WHY and WHAT", that why you have to move forward? what you have to do for your family? what you have to do for the people who depends on you? what you have to do for society?. Make a plan, stick to your plan and follow till the end. Once you clearly identify, you not remain same and you start experiencing many changes in yourself. "The minute you realize your worth, you shift your energy to attract new people who respect your worth, it start with you first". Remember "If you brave enough to say goodbye to fake people, life will reward you with a new hello".

2) Lack of understanding: Sometime a small issue can create a big problem in relationship, boys/girls now a days make the situation more complex instead of solving any problem, doing argument on little things and do break up. Take some time and think twice before taking any action, whatever the problem or situation, discuss both together and solve together, trust on each other, remove tags of "Doubts", believe all things get clear easily and your relationship filled with love and respect. REMEMBER "Shit happens everyday to everybody, the difference is how we respond".